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Sleep Hygiene for Children

August 15, 2019 by Creating Together

According to the National Sleep Foundation, sleep hygiene is “a variety of different practices and habits that are necessary to have good nighttime sleep quality and full daytime alertness.”

Why is Sleep Important?

Getting healthy sleep is important for both physical and mental health. It can also improve productivity and overall quality of life. Lets look at some examples:

  1. Healthy Growth – Did you know that growth hormone is primarily secreted during deep sleep, and that Italian researchers, studying children with deficient levels of growth hormone, have found that they sleep less deeply than average children do?
  2. The Weight Connection – Children, like adults, crave higher-fat or higher-carb foods when they’re tired” says Dorit Koren, M.D., a pediatric endocrinologist and sleep researcher at the University of Chicago “Tired children also tend to be more sedentary, so they burn fewer calories.”
  3. Immune Function – During sleep, children (and adults) also produce proteins known as cytokines, which the body relies on to fight infection, illness, and stress. Too little sleep appears to impact the number of cytokines on hand.
  4. Managing Moods and Impulses – For school-age kids, research has shown that adding as little as 27 minutes of extra sleep per night makes it easier for them to manage their moods and impulses so they can focus on schoolwork.

How much sleep does my child need?

Every child is different. Some sleep a lot and others much less. This chart is a general guide to the amount of sleep children need over a 24-hour period, including nighttime sleep and daytime naps.

Infants (4 to 12 months old) 12-16 hours 
Toddlers (1 to 2 years old)11-14 hours 
Children (3 to 5 years old)10-13 hours 
Children (6-12 years) 9-12 hours
Teenagers (13-18 years old)8-10 hours

Source: Recommended Amount of Sleep for Pediatric Populations: A Consensus Statement (American Academy of Sleep Medicine)

Healthy Sleep Habits for Children

Healthy sleep habits start from birth, but life also presents many challenges to developing and sticking to a healthy sleep routine for ourselves and our children. “…it can be very difficult to recognize all the ways that after-school and evening activities sabotage bedtime,” says Parents advisor Jodi Mindell, Ph.D., associate director of the Sleep Center at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia.

Here are some tips for different ages from “Caring For Kids“, so you can help your child(ren) get the most of every day:

Babies (0-4 months):

  • Napping actually helps a baby to sleep better at night, so schedule some naps during the day.
  • Put your baby in bed when they are drowsy, but awake. Remember to put them to sleep on their back in their crib, on a firm, flat surface. Keep soft items like pillows and stuffed animals out of the crib.
  • It’s okay to cuddle and rock your baby. You cannot spoil a young baby by holding them.
  • A pacifier may comfort and help your baby to settle. However, it’s best not to start using a pacifier until breastfeeding is going well.
  • Your baby will stir during the night. Give them a few minutes to try and settle on his their before going to them.
  • Avoid stimulation during nighttime feedings and diaper changes. Keep the lights dim.

Infants (4-12 months):

  • Maintain a regular daytime and bedtime sleep schedule as much as possible.
  • A consistent bedtime routine is important. Many parents like to use the “3 Bs”: bath, book, bed.
  • Don’t put your baby to bed with a bottle. This can lead to tooth decay.
  • At around 6 months, if your baby wakes at night and cries, go check to see if there is anything wrong, such as being too cold or too warm, and without picking them up, comfort them by stroking their forehead or talking softly to let them know you’re there. This helps your baby learn how to self-soothe, important steps toward falling back to sleep on their own.

Toddler (1-2 years):

  • It’s still important to keep a sleep schedule your child is familiar with. The routine you established during the first year is even more important for your toddler.
  • Avoid naps that are too late in the day, because at this age, they can affect nighttime sleeping.
  • Help your child wind down about half an hour before bedtime with stories and quiet activities.
  • Be gentle but firm if your child protests.
  • Keep the bedroom quiet, cozy, and good for sleeping, such as keeping the lights dim.
  • Soft, soothing music might be comforting.
  • Security items (such as a blanket or stuffed animal) are often important at this age.

Preschoolers (3-5 years):

  • Don’t give your child drinks with caffeine.
  • Avoid screens before bedtime. Don’t allow tablets, televisions, computer or video games in the bedroom.
  • Some children will try to delay bedtime. Set limits, such as how many books you will read together, and be sure your child knows what they are.
  • Tuck your child into bed snugly for a feeling of security.
  • Don’t ignore bedtime fears. If your child has nightmares, reassure and comfort them.

Filed Under: Tips and Tools

Annual Summer Picnic Kicks Off Summer Holidays

August 1, 2019 by Creating Together

Each year, Creating together welcomes children with their families and caregivers to enjoy a day of food and festivities at our local park.

This year, we’ll be having our annual picnic on August 8th, and hope you can make it!

We also close each year for summer holidays, and this picnic is our way of kicking off our summer holidays with a great celebration together.


See you in September!

Filed Under: Announcements, Family Playtime, Special Activities, What's On in Parkdale

Prioritizing Self-Care in Summer Months

July 27, 2019 by Creating Together

With summer here and school out, the kids are home. Some look forward to it and some can’t wait for it to be over. Either way, it’s important to make self-care a priority.

Here are 5 tips to save your sanity and keep those stress-levels down so you can be the best you can be this summer:

  1. Create a routine – for tips on how to create a healthy summer routine with your kids, check out this blog: https://gradepowerlearning.com/creating-a-summer-routine-for-children/
  2. Take yourself out once and a while – schedule time to energize yourself with some me-time, be it a yoga class, a night out with friends, or a date night with your partner.
  3. Be intentional about developing a connection with your child(ren) – when you fill your relationship up emotionally, it creates space for other things, and builds up a more meaningful relationship between you and your child(ren).
  4. Get involved with community activities – be it a week-long camp or a day out at a local festival, schedule some time in your local community. For a list of things to do in Toronto, check out this link: https://www.toronto.com/parkdale-toronto-on-events/
  5. Make exercising and healthy meal planning a family activity. This not only gets things done, but you’ll all feel better in your bodies. Here’s a list of 5 great ways to incorporate your child(ren) into your exercise routine: https://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/fitness/a29404/exercising-with-children/. Also, here are some tips from KidsHealth on how to involve children in meal tasks: https://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/Article?contentid=1465&language=English

Do you have other concerns about your family’s health and well-being? Join us at our upcoming Nurse Visit on August 7th at 10am.

Filed Under: Family Playtime, Healthy Eating, Tips and Tools, What's On in Parkdale

Bringing Peace to Sibling Rivalry

July 20, 2019 by Creating Together

Did you know that 82% of kids live with a sibling (1), and about 75% of 70-year-olds have a living sibling (2)? For those of us who have brothers or sisters, our relationships with them will likely be the longest of our life.

While many siblings become the best of friends, it’s common for brothers and sisters to fight. Sibling rivalry often starts even before the second child is born, and continues as they grow. Certainly a household full of conflict is stressful for everybody. Yet it can be very difficult to figure out how to make it stop and bring peace?

This month’s information sessions at Creating Together were about “Sibling Rivalry”. Parents and caregivers came to receive some information and tips on how to understand and cope with this common, vexing challenge. Below is some information and resources that we reviewed, to support you moving forward.

Signs of Sibling Rivalry

Children under 9 years of age may show these signs:

  • Fighting (verbal or physical attacks)
  • Frustration
  • Demanding attention
  • “Tattling”
  • Regressive acts such as bed-wetting, baby talk, thumb sucking, temper tantrums

Reactions to a new baby

A common cause of sibling rivalry is a new baby in the family. When the baby comes home, other children may:

  • Show anger toward the baby (hitting, kicking, punching, biting)
  • Ask for the baby to go back in mother’s tummy or back to the hospital
  • Demand more attention when the parent is with the baby

Ways to help your child adjust to a new baby

  • Remind each child often that he or she is loved. Let your children know you respect all their feelings, even the angry thoughts.
  • Involve your children in getting ready for the new baby to come home.
  • Tell older children early about your pregnancy to give them more time to prepare.
  • If an older child has to move to a new room, make the move early.
  • Let the older child “help” with baby’s care and be sure to give lots of praise (Picture 2). But, never leave the baby alone with a toddler.
  • Try to work with a toddler on new skills such as toilet training, before the new baby is born.  If this cannot be done, wait a few months after the baby’s birth.
  • If possible, space your children 2 to 3 years apart.
  • If children continue to have problems adjusting, think about getting professional counseling.

What to Do

Sibling rivalry is not all bad. In fact, it can be helpful because it can teach children how to solve problems. Parents should not get too involved in their children’s arguments. Parents cannot force children to get along but they can teach them problem-solving skills and cooperation.

Ways to help your child adjust to a new baby

  • Remind each child often that he or she is loved. Let your children know you respect all their feelings, even the angry thoughts.
  • Involve your children in getting ready for the new baby to come home.
  • Tell older children early about your pregnancy to give them more time to prepare.
  • If an older child has to move to a new room, make the move early.
  • Let the older child “help” with baby’s care and be sure to give lots of praise (Picture 2). But, never leave the baby alone with a toddler.
  • Try to work with a toddler on new skills such as toilet training, before the new baby is born.  If this cannot be done, wait a few months after the baby’s birth.
  • If possible, space your children 2 to 3 years apart.
  • If children continue to have problems adjusting, think about getting professional counseling.

Ways to manage sibling rivalry

  • Be a role model to teach your child positive problem-solving skills.
  • Do not criticize if your child starts acting like a baby again. This will pass as he gets older and begins to accept the new baby.
  • Praise your children to build their self-confidence.
  • Listen to your children’s needs.
  • Spend time with your children to reassure them that they are loved.
  • Avoid situations that may lead to jealousy.
  • Do not “play favorites.” Be fair and consistent.
  • Do not compare one child to another.
  • If the arguing or “acting out” gets to be too much, give yourself a “time out” and get away from the situation.

You’re Not Alone

Don’t forget, you’re not alone. If you need any additional resources or would like to some tips, please speak with one of our staff members at Creating Together and we’d be happy to help.

The Studies

  1. McHale et al., “Sibling Relationships and Influences in Childhood and Adolescence” (Journal of Marriage and Family, Oct. 2012
  2. Richard A. Settersten Jr., ”Social Relationships in the New Demographic Regime” (Advances in Life Course Research, 2007)

Filed Under: Family Playtime, Tips and Tools Tagged With: information session, sibling rivalry

10 Self-Care Tips for Moms

July 13, 2019 by Creating Together

Are you looking for some tips to renew and replenish? You’re not alone.

While children are an immeasurable source of joy and love in our lives, being a caregiver comes with added stress. Often seen as a negative, it’s important to remember that stress is quite simply a reaction to a change or a challenge.

Each mother and caregiver may face unique stressors, but many demands of motherhood and the stressors experienced are basically universal. Time, finances, self-doubt, relationship demands, and loneliness are just some of the stressors at play.

What Impact Does Stress Have on our Lives?

In the short term, stress has its bonuses – it helps you be more alert, and have more energy to get things done. But long-term stress is another story, and can lead to serious health problems down the road.

Did you know that women are more likely than men to report symptoms of stress, including headaches and upset stomach? Women are also more likely to have mental health conditions that are made worse by stress, such as depression or anxiety.

Reference: 1

How to Get Stress Levels Down and Quality of Life Up

Below are some self-care tips to help keep your stress-levels down and your quality of life up:

  1. Sleep. Focus on “sleep hygiene” – simple practices that can help you get a healthy, restorative rest, regardless of the time spent in bed. This means skipping that late afternoon coffee, and creating a digital curfew of 2hrs before bedtime, and using a sleep mask.
  2. Journal. Take 20 minutes a day to write in a free-flowing stream-of-consciousness style. Notice feelings that are just under the surface.
  3. Easy Listening. Listening to relaxing music, a song with a strong message you need to hear, or even some rock and roll you loved in high school.
  4. Mindful Sipping. Make yourself a nice drink like chamomile tea, hot chocolate or juice and sip it slowly.
  5. Get Out. Schedule at least one uninterrupted hour with a close friend. Go out for coffee or a drink, talk on the phone, go out for dinner, or go for a walk together.
  6. Get Active. Go for a walk (High Park or the boardwalk along Lake Ontario are great choices), go to the gym (Masryk-Cowan has a free gym), or start a swimming routine.
  7. Savor. Choose something you’re going to savour instead of just doing it (taking a shower, riding the train, walking, chopping wood, or reading magazine).
  8. Meditate. Try dropping in for the free Sunday Meditation Group put on by Meditation Toronto at St. Paul’s Trinity Church on Bloor. If you can’t pick up the class, you can download this free mantra meditation album, or try this simple one: Close your eyes, breathe deeply, focus on your breath, and repeat “All sounds return to the breath, all thoughts return to the breath, all distractions return to the breath.”
  9. Try Something New: Go someplace in the hood you’ve never been before – a park, the beach, an art gallery, a new route to the grocery store.
  10. Get Support: Try signing up to a program designed to help women with coping, stress, and self-esteem, such as the Peer Learning and Empowerment Group offered at the local Parkdale Community Health Centre.

Looking for more? Check out our Calendar and come enjoy yourself at Creating Together. If you need somebody to talk to, our staff are here for you. If you need additional resources, ask about our resource library designed to help parents and caregivers with different need.

We’re here for you – you’re not alone.

Filed Under: Special Activities, Tips and Tools Tagged With: health, stress

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